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LOVE, AFFECTION, LUST & INFATUATION

Which one is important for our society?

They are all human emotions and can happen to anyone in their lifetime.

Which one should be guarded and taken care of to meet all social needs.

To find an answer we need to understand these emotions well first.

Web search gave me the following results.

Here i am sharing my personal thoughts on these basic emotions.

Love is an internally developed human emotion very strong and deep within. Once developed you can’t stay away from the other person. You will feel happy with their happiness. You are internally committed to do all good for the person. All your actions for your beloved will become selfless. You will never want to possess the person as your personal property. You can’t bind them under your own rules. You will set them free and help them realise true freedom.

While love is natural, lust develops through improper social conditioning when we get associated with wrong people in our life. It mostly starts germinating in the adolescent age. If not guided and corrected at an early stage, it may grow as an epidemic and take you in it’s control. Once it successfully spreads it roots within you and grows stronger, it’s very difficult to come out of it’s grip. It becomes an addiction. Once you are in the control of your lust it will always keep you away from realising your love as both walk in different directions. Sometimes people start with lust and end up with love. Love is so powerful once it takes you in control it will never allow lust to touch you.

With love you can’t use the person you are in love with. You can only think good about the person. No doubt will ever come to your mind. Love is sacred and divine. We can think of love as light and lust as darkness. Darkness is also powerful but it’s nothing compared to light. It cannot stay in the presence of light.

I will discuss more about these emotions here some other time.

Keep sharing with me your thoughts and help me develop more powerful ideas with your knowledge…

I want to listen you and your opinion before sharing more of mine.

Let’s open all areas of our vision and start thinking…


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RESPECT LAW & ORDER

There is a need to respect law and order in the larger interest of society. We have been fighting with each other for a long time now in the name of religion, caste based community and minority.

The Indian citizenship amendment bill 2019 seems unacceptable to people in certain areas as they treat this as anti secular. When a policy is under force it need to be respected. Citizens have no right to take law and order in hands.

Violence caused by riots and protests are unacceptable. It’s happening as some of us feel there is great partiality in this bill and they don’t see equally which was s going to harm the interests of the minority.

It’s highly uncivilized behavior. If we have some other better idea it may be proposed to government looking at interest of all and in a peaceful manner.

Good thoughts can bring better results. In case the administration finds something useful they may go ahead with it and bring necessary changes as required in the next amendment.

Till that time we all must remain peaceful. Let’s don’t interfere with government decisions how they operate.

Proposals are welcome and we should wait till next amendment. If we can really propose a great idea that can change the current situation and which can help protect the rights of all we may find something in our favor in the next amendment.

From the government side there is an urgent need to address media and citizens not to panic with current situation. We must make people understand that if something not seemingly acceptable to few in the current bill, still the rights of all going to be protected in long run.

We are a secular country and will remain so for generations to come…

When a decision is made at high level it is not the idea of any single person. Lot of discussions happen and consensus comes through collective ideas and opinions. When it’s a government decision at national level it can’t be without much thought process. Here, national interest takes priority. What is good or bad for people at large.

It’s not about Hinduism or Christianity. Sometimes few antisocial elements take advantage of a decision and spread rumors in the name of religion which provokes common citizens. They are now blind folded and without a vision. Rumors are so strong at times which make people violent and they come out for protests and agitation.

I am quite confident government can’t make anti secular decisions looking at interest of specific community. We are always secular and can never be communal. We received overwhelming response from people when triple talaq bill passed in parliament to abolish the age old system in our country.

We praised the effort of government that time looking at justice to all in greater interest of society. Now we condemn the same government and feel they are against us because of our community. How can this be possible?

Me and my government never thought to become a Hindu country or Christian country. We believe in secularism and equal rights for all. The decision can’t be politicized. National security is paramount for my government which suffers from global terrorism for a long time now. We never asked our citizens to leave the country based on their community. How can we think now they are targeting us because of our community.

It should not be treated on the ground of community if a specific immigrants group barred from citizenship at the moment. Our duty is to protect the interests of people who are already our citizens before looking at others who want to become our citizens.

I need to have enough food grains with me first to feed all refugee immigrants.
National safety of all paramount to me and my government. I just can’t add fifteen crore more numbers to my existing population overnight when i can’t feed them. Doing this i don’t want to do injustice to anyone as i can’t look after their day to day needs and help them settle well in my country.

At present I can allow only those numbers who can be taken care of by my government. The people may come from any community i don’t mind. The truth is when i find the number too big for one community compared to all others taken together, it’s unacceptable to me at the moment. In long run my government is committed to protect rights of all irrespective of community.

I can’t be against government decision. The decision seems to be highly misinterpreted by few. It’s not about any specific community. Decision not made looking at interest of any specific group. People who came out on roads claiming they are against the decision mostly don’t know what reason they are doing this. It was clear then most of them participating to support some miscreants under external influence. They even don’t know what is CAA. We need to respect government decision, remain secular and live in brotherhood.

The motivation behind writing this article is not to influence my government and their decision but to protect national interests so that people outside can only talk good about my country and my government.

We need to be wise, judicious and thoughtful in our approach.

Let peace prevail…


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CORE VALUES

Here is my top list of core values…

– Honesty

– Integrity

– Love

– Passion

– Trustworthiness

– Respect

– Teamwork

– Innovation

– Friendship

There are many more.

We may the following links useful.

Core Values List

Core Values List: Over 200 Personal Values to Discover What’s Most Important to You

What is yours?

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