Why is it important to respect a relationship? A past relationship, our present relationship or a relationship born in mind which never got fruition.
We may get victimised under conflict situations with or without our intention. These conflict situations may arise out of inadequate or improper communication between two or more people.
Unable to find the correct route people tend to hide themselves. They tend to have a self-talk and convince themselves to leave the matter as it is. They think all will be well with time. Let’s forget it and get on to work.
Keeping silent and not taking any action is the worst thing to do. I feel like no human caused issue gets resolved automatically. We need to take action. God has not created five fingers equally. Each one built to serve a different purpose but they work well in unison. Similarly each individual has there own thought process and way of working.
Irrespective of our thought process we need to take action – to solve a purpose. It is to help our own and it ,ay help others overcome a difficult to do situation, How can another person understand what’s going in your mind unless you express correctly?
People take years to understand each other even after a long stay together and still there is no guarantee. We should not blame others for our own fault. It’s quite not justifiable to set any expectation from people in the category of acquaintances (though not strangers).
Self betrayal can cause you lot of pain. The after effect may go against you. It will be too hard to make peace with your past. Don’t get victimised too for others actions. Do your best not to cause such issues or yourself be part of it.
It’s dangerous to conduct experiments on human beings. Do a calculation for all pros, cons and other probability beforehand if it’s really required to conduct such an experiment. There is great probability to hurt people and their emotions in this process. Beware of the possible outcome and be careful.
There is a common question arising in mind. What if I don’t have a choice to meet and talk to people face to face? Even then you need to find a medium to pass on the correct message timely. Time is the most important entity here and your action will lose it’s value significantly unless taken in time.
Talk to yourself and follow your heart. In a conflict situation, don’t make random guesses. It’s always a better idea to reach out to people and talk face to face. This can save you a lot of time to solve an issue.
In my observation it’s not possible to completely decode thoughts in another mind without making any communication for a long time. We need to keep in touch with people if we wish to understand them well.
We all together can lift humanity to its next level…
I wish all a successful new year!