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TIME FOR OUR OWN

Time flies. We often plan activities but fail to execute in search of quality time. It’s crucial for success how we spend our time.

I have some experience I’d like to share. I am a person who loves to spend time with nature and kids. I love biodiversity. I love to watch children playing as they provide me good learning with their activities. It’s pure and godly. They do everything naturally out of their mind with less outer influence. To my good fortune i have the time now to spend time with kids.

I am passionate about reading and writing. I love to live my passion. It’s not just me but with many in my circle who want to live their passion. Though most of us like to spend quality time, many among my friends complain about better time management when they fail to do so. Me too no different.

I have divided my day to make it simple as work time, non-work time. My time away from work involves food time, sleep time, kids time, friends/family time and self time. Self time is the period i want to spend with God, nature and with my passion. At present my self time is the least of all and the least utilized time.

If you ask me how much time i would like to spend in each category, my choice would be my self time and then the required time with kids. All other time secondary to me. So, i want to increase this time.

How do you work out with your plan? Assume you have the luxury to spend all time now away from work as a sabbatical or some other category where you need not have to work at office for a month. This period you want to spend time with kids and for your passion.

How to distribute time evenly for all activity. The constraint is when you are with kids you can’t pursue your other passion as kids can’t be neglected. You must watch and observe them. Sometimes i wait for them to sleep so that i can continue with other activities. Kids love me and i can’t avoid them. You have to spend time with few kids daily in the age group one to six. You are not a mother and have no experience how to spend good time with them. Out of all time you must devote half for kids and most of the remaining as self time.

Are you struggling to find good time for your own? It’s very much essential for nourishment of our soul. If you had bitter experience in past and successfully overcome that it could provide learning material for others struggling and seeking advice.

Let all know about our experiences in past or present. We can help all by sharing information on how good or bad we managed our time in the past. What steps we took to overcome bad time management and make best use of our time.

I’d love to learn from your experience if i can relate myself and gain valuable information much needed for me.


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BUILDING GREAT RELATIONSHIPS

Mission…

“To bring all human beings under one roof as part of a global family where insecurity is never a concern. Here, all are secure forever.”

We see major issues in relationships when people lack values. With great values we can build great relationships and a greater society.

Values need to be developed from early childhood. Children learn values from our actions even before they start communicating. They imitate us and our actions.

Let’s discover our personal values in life. It’s essential for any fruitful relationship as it becomes part of our day to day living. We can share only those values with others that we have inculcated in us. I will share my insights on how to build great values some other time.

As a practice i follow few tips i learned over time. People like us when we do the following. Share your learning with others. Mention a friend and share what you like about him/her. Admire someone in public during a meeting, at your speech or some other event.

Let people know you care about them and grateful for their contribution. Help someone in need from your heart because you are a nice person and want to provide service without any expectations.

It will have exponential effect. The feelgood factor will energize all further to do better. It’s a great motivational factor that helps people think different.
This way we can build a human value chain with a strong network. This force will build our future generations helping them learn better and do better. They will develop strong bond with fellow human beings with a service mentality.

(This article needs updation…)


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RESPECT LAW & ORDER

There is a need to respect law and order in the larger interest of society. We have been fighting with each other for a long time now in the name of religion, caste based community and minority.

The Indian citizenship amendment bill 2019 seems unacceptable to people in certain areas as they treat this as anti secular. When a policy is under force it need to be respected. Citizens have no right to take law and order in hands.

Violence caused by riots and protests are unacceptable. It’s happening as some of us feel there is great partiality in this bill and they don’t see equally which was s going to harm the interests of the minority.

It’s highly uncivilized behavior. If we have some other better idea it may be proposed to government looking at interest of all and in a peaceful manner.

Good thoughts can bring better results. In case the administration finds something useful they may go ahead with it and bring necessary changes as required in the next amendment.

Till that time we all must remain peaceful. Let’s don’t interfere with government decisions how they operate.

Proposals are welcome and we should wait till next amendment. If we can really propose a great idea that can change the current situation and which can help protect the rights of all we may find something in our favor in the next amendment.

From the government side there is an urgent need to address media and citizens not to panic with current situation. We must make people understand that if something not seemingly acceptable to few in the current bill, still the rights of all going to be protected in long run.

We are a secular country and will remain so for generations to come…

When a decision is made at high level it is not the idea of any single person. Lot of discussions happen and consensus comes through collective ideas and opinions. When it’s a government decision at national level it can’t be without much thought process. Here, national interest takes priority. What is good or bad for people at large.

It’s not about Hinduism or Christianity. Sometimes few antisocial elements take advantage of a decision and spread rumors in the name of religion which provokes common citizens. They are now blind folded and without a vision. Rumors are so strong at times which make people violent and they come out for protests and agitation.

I am quite confident government can’t make anti secular decisions looking at interest of specific community. We are always secular and can never be communal. We received overwhelming response from people when triple talaq bill passed in parliament to abolish the age old system in our country.

We praised the effort of government that time looking at justice to all in greater interest of society. Now we condemn the same government and feel they are against us because of our community. How can this be possible?

Me and my government never thought to become a Hindu country or Christian country. We believe in secularism and equal rights for all. The decision can’t be politicized. National security is paramount for my government which suffers from global terrorism for a long time now. We never asked our citizens to leave the country based on their community. How can we think now they are targeting us because of our community.

It should not be treated on the ground of community if a specific immigrants group barred from citizenship at the moment. Our duty is to protect the interests of people who are already our citizens before looking at others who want to become our citizens.

I need to have enough food grains with me first to feed all refugee immigrants.
National safety of all paramount to me and my government. I just can’t add fifteen crore more numbers to my existing population overnight when i can’t feed them. Doing this i don’t want to do injustice to anyone as i can’t look after their day to day needs and help them settle well in my country.

At present I can allow only those numbers who can be taken care of by my government. The people may come from any community i don’t mind. The truth is when i find the number too big for one community compared to all others taken together, it’s unacceptable to me at the moment. In long run my government is committed to protect rights of all irrespective of community.

I can’t be against government decision. The decision seems to be highly misinterpreted by few. It’s not about any specific community. Decision not made looking at interest of any specific group. People who came out on roads claiming they are against the decision mostly don’t know what reason they are doing this. It was clear then most of them participating to support some miscreants under external influence. They even don’t know what is CAA. We need to respect government decision, remain secular and live in brotherhood.

The motivation behind writing this article is not to influence my government and their decision but to protect national interests so that people outside can only talk good about my country and my government.

We need to be wise, judicious and thoughtful in our approach.

Let peace prevail…


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INDIVIDUAL Or INSTITUTION

You might be in a dilemma with your choice in decision making. You feel both are very important and inseparable. You are still thinking some way out to continue your association with both. You are happy when you discovered the way forward by the mercy of GOD. Now it’s an easy to arrive at a decision.

Let’s think about a situation when these two entities can’t run together and it’s inevitable now to choose only one. Both are still doing good and the individual is an outperformer in his own capacity though you are not certain about his other vital skills desirable for team success in your organisation. You did all your research and training activities to continue with both together.

The results now are not in your favour as you expected. It’s time now to take a decision and only one can be choosen.

Whom will you go with – the institution or the individual? When both are important, what is your choice? You can choose any without any pressure or bias.

Send me your thoughts in email. If you like to comment in this blog post you are welcome to start a conversation here.


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What I Like About It (Movie Review)

Movie name: Hichki
Language: Hindi
Genre: Inspiring bollywood drama/comedy

 

I watched this movie recently and i feel there are some good points for all to learn from it as it has a strong message to our society.

We can find several reviews on this movie over internet and other media. I’ll not write here much on the storyline of the movie. I’m going to write here my learning from this movie in the form of quotations.

Derived quotations …

– ” There are no bad students but only bad teachers. ”

 

 

… More to follow …


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LOVE IS BLIND

Is love blind?

I feel so. I have discovered myself.
Read on full as follows to rediscover your inner voice.
“Love is blind… we all have been played once” This quote was written by a great philosopher that stated that love is blinding, because it’s hard to see clearly when you’re i…

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