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HOW BIG IS YOUR DREAM

I was inspired to write on this topic while listening to a speech early morning today. I will not rewrite the speech but represent my analysis of the speech as i understood.

To be continued…


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BUILDING GREAT RELATIONSHIPS

Mission…

“To bring all human beings under one roof as part of a global family where insecurity is never a concern. Here, all are secure forever.”

We see major issues in relationships when people lack values. With great values we can build great relationships and a greater society.

Values need to be developed from early childhood. Children learn values from our actions even before they start communicating. They imitate us and our actions.

Let’s discover our personal values in life. It’s essential for any fruitful relationship as it becomes part of our day to day living. We can share only those values with others that we have inculcated in us. I will share my insights on how to build great values some other time.

As a practice i follow few tips i learned over time. People like us when we do the following. Share your learning with others. Mention a friend and share what you like about him/her. Admire someone in public during a meeting, at your speech or some other event.

Let people know you care about them and grateful for their contribution. Help someone in need from your heart because you are a nice person and want to provide service without any expectations.

It will have exponential effect. The feelgood factor will energize all further to do better. It’s a great motivational factor that helps people think different.
This way we can build a human value chain with a strong network. This force will build our future generations helping them learn better and do better. They will develop strong bond with fellow human beings with a service mentality.

(This article needs updation…)


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WHEN I DO NOTHING

I am now going to write something which may sound utterly negative and pessimistic attitude towards life. Many of us might have developed these kinds of thought before out of their experience in life. Few of us like to express and few others don’t do because of unknown fear. Let’s try to approach it differently with a positive spirit.

I had a sound sleep for few hours today afternoon. I had a dream after a long time. I was feeling good inside and ever thankful to the power I don’t understand who reconnected the broken string. I was rejoicing with a thought I can sing again to the tunes of music.

I used to dream a lot in my childhood thinking about stories I hear and others I watch on TV. Suddenly all those disappeared as I grew up. I felt like I am ever busy and there is no time to dream. I had a feeling I lost my true nature. I never understood if it is because of my surrounding environment. Why can’t I develop those powerful thoughts again as in my childhood? What is really missing?

When is the last time you felt abandoned and isolated? A feeling of nothing to do for anyone as all your near and dear ones going away from you who are never reachable again. You are in complete isolation without connection with the world outside. You tried to reach people but you understand now nobody wants you. You have to live in your world as they can’t come to your world.

You are in a deep thought now what is the living force in me. You are seeking answers to many of your questions. What is the purpose of my living? Who will show me the direction to move ahead? You are still doing nothing but thinking with a hope to find some way out to get accepted by people and comeback to a common society. You are striving to live a life of a common human being as anybody else in the society.

You are in a state of depression when you don’t get enough support from your immediate family including your spouse/kids. It is because they don’t like the life you live. They are in love with the material world where they want to possess more and more wealth. They are not in love with you now as they understand you can’t give them the world they like. They are annoyed with the idea of social change. They don’t support your activities too in this direction.

This is the time when feel deep isolation even when you see people around. This is primarily because your idea of life don’t match with others and hence you are unable to walk together with others. Still you feel you are in the right direction and should not change your footsteps for others. You tried best to make people understand the road you are traveling now but all in vain as they feel high insecurity in this direction. They don’t believe your choosen path will give them the satisfaction they want out of life.

You have no way to walk together but to walk alone till your last breath. You have a very big heart to accept all as they are and forgive. You don’t believe in quitting. You are still searching your roots and the strong guiding force in you. You are ever hopeful to see the sun rise again.

Who is your companion now? Do you believe in superpower?

Let’s analyse, correlate with some experience in our own lives and understand better. I am trying to understand. Often I don’t understand my own writings and think like someone else in me doing the same. I am not the kind of person who can produce these thoughts.

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WHAT’S HOLDING YOU BACK?

Nothing more than one’s own thoughts I guess. People who successfully change their course of action for the better proudly say I am not a product of my circumstances. Rather they say like I have changed this and that. People view them as leaders who create their own destiny. Probably, I am not. I have a long way to go before I can realize my dreams.

Sometimes ours goals suffer how we prioritize tasks in life. I am not much worried if it’s for a good social cause. We still can pursue our passion and dreams.

Not all cricket commentators play cricket but they know well how to attract people listen to them. It’s a bonus if you know all the rules of the game well when you plan to start your career as a commentator. It’s really easy for a sports person. Some are very good at inspiring others but fail measurably when it comes to their own part. I guess you are not. Either category is fine and they can do well at their own field. It all depends on our level of commitment to excel in our own field.

I often think why did I study engineering? What am I doing as an engineer? Many of my friends feel like the same. What is my natural instinct and what should be my real field of action? Shall I pursue a career with big corporates? What should I do to understand my own strengths and weaknesses?  Of late I understood I am more inclined to society and social service rather than any other field of work.

Similar questions might be arising in your mind. If so, let me know in writing what you do to overcome your negative thoughts, solve permanently all your financial issues and pursue your passion.

More detailed information can be found here in the article as follows …

“Don’t let anything hold you back from your dreams” Many times when we’re going after our dreams and aspirations it always seems like there’s something holding us back. Rather its monetary issues, …

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