“To realize that you do not understand is a virtue; not to realize that you do not understand is a defect.” ― Lao Tzu All secrets are spoken within the heart, conversations that open the world with…
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“To realize that you do not understand is a virtue; not to realize that you do not understand is a defect.” ― Lao Tzu All secrets are spoken within the heart, conversations that open the world with…
Source: Secret Talks
I am in a place I have never been before in my life. The more I move forward, the more my life is in a constant state of change. It’s scary and mostly confusing. I experience down times of fr…
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Never feel upset you have lost one day doing nothing. Replenish yourself with renewed vigour and energy to make everyday count. Never allow any sort of negativity trap you and your determination.
There is no excuse pretending ourselves we have no time. The world outside will remain busy forever. We must find time for our inner world.
I am sharing few tips in images for a transformed living i have learned earlier.
It’s our duty to give time some time daily for self development. We all deserve a fulfilled living.
Let’s spend great time together and cherish our living even at solitude!
“When we least expect it, life sets us a challenge to test our courage and willingness to change; at such a moment, there is no point in pretending that nothing has happened or in saying that we ar…
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Today is world telecommunication day. It’s also known as world information society day. How important is effective communication in human lives? What is the significance of this day?
You start thinking about it.
I will continue writing …
“He who knows others is wise; he who knows himself is enlightened.” ― Lao Tzu The life of a seed is one that begs to be noticed. We often overlook this, as we see just a simple existence, basic, un…
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Not so superstitious …
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“If we have no peace, it is because we have forgotten that we belong to each other.” ― Mother Teresa Possibly the greatest gift to receive is the key to unlocking one’s own passion in life. A…
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“In this world, if I am to be a son. Let me have a mother, to whom I may always run.” A son may go far in life. He may conquer his fears and he may achieve his dreams. But it is …
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The social media is flooded with greetings in the form of text and multimedia messages for mother’s day. I received quite a few. I am sharing here a small collection on this occasion.
This is too beautiful not to share. 🌸🐝A Newborn’s👶 Conversation with God 🌷🐞🌸🐝
🌸🐝A baby👶asked God,🌷🐞 “They tell me you are sending me to earth tomorrow, but how am I going to live there being so small and helpless?”🌸🐝
🌸🐝God said, 🌷🐞”Your angel 👼will be waiting for you and will take care of you.” 🌸🐝
🌸🐝The child 👶further inquired, “But tell me, here in heaven I don’t have to do anything but sing and smile to be happy.”🌸🐝
🌸🐝God said, 🌷🐞”Your angel 👼will sing for you and will also smile for you. And you will feel your angel’s 👼love and be very happy.” 🌸🐝
🌸🐝Again the small child 👶asked, “And how am I going to be able to understand when people talk to me if I don’t know the language?”🌸🐝
🌸🐝God said,🌷🐞”Your angel👼 will tell you the most beautiful and sweet words you will ever hear, and with much patience and care, your angel 👼will teach you how to speak.”🌸🐝
🌸🐝”And what am I going to do when I want to talk to you?” 🌸🐝
🌸🐝God said,🌷🐞”Your angel 👼will place your hands together and will teach you how to pray.”🌸🐝
🌸🐝”Who will protect me?” 🌸🐝
🌸🐝God said, 🌷🐞”Your angel 👼will defend you even if it means risking her life.”🌸🐝
🌸🐝”But I 🌷🐞will always be sad because I 🌷🐞will not see you anymore.”🌸🐝
🌸🐝God said, 🌷🐞”Your angel 👼will always talk to you about Me🌷🐞and will teach you the way to come back to Me, 🌷🐞even though I will always be next to you.”🌸🐝
🌸🐝At that moment there was much peace in Heaven, but voices from Earth could be heard and the child 👶hurriedly asked, 🌷🐞”God, if I am to leave now, please tell me my angel’s👼name.”🌸🐝
🌸🐝God said,🌷🐞You will simply call her……🌸🐝
🍃🌺🐛MOM🍃🌺🐛
🍃🌺🐛M- My🍃🌺🐛
🍃🌺🐛O- Only🍃🌺🐛
🍃🌺🐛M- Mentor🍃🌺🐛
🌸🌷🌸🌷🌸🌷🌸🌷🌸🌷🌸
🌻Lift a mother’s spirit; send this to every mother you know,no matter how old her child 👶is.
“For it is up to you and me to take solace in nostalgia’s arms and our ability to create the everlasting from fleeting moments.” ― Sanober Khan, A touch, a tear, a tempest It’s said abo…
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Don’t blame yourself for anything happening around you perceive to be wrong. Even you don’t need to worry too much about all wrong doings caused primarily because of you. You may not be the reason and a great probability of some higher force involved guiding you to perform certain act at any point of need. The force is unknown to you and so as the need.
You are just a medium. You can only play the role to your best ability as per the limitations set for you by this much greater force.
You can never know your best ability as you are not fully aware of these limitations. You have complete freedom but the limitations are not set by you.
There is always something we can do better about anything. So we should accept ourselves for all that we are doing good and for the rest that went wrong as nobody is a perfect human being.
There is nothing like perfectly right or wrong about something. We can only do better to our current performance on our next opportunity if we learn from our strengths and weaknesses. Our past performance is a psychological booster but not necessarily a determining factor for our future performance.
It’s important to set ourselves free and be in a positive mindset before we plan to do something good. Why should I limit myself when I am not the controller and not aware of all the limitations?
It’s better to assume we are limitless and having unlimited control. This will make us free from any unknown fear and will give us complete freedom to think and act on our own.
I expect you to do better to all that you are doing good now. Write to me all that I can do better I am not doing very good now.
Happy reading & writing…
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“How often have I lain beneath rain on a strange roof, thinking of home.”
― William Faulkner
Everyone revisits their past at some point. Some dwell, some cherish the thoughts of times gone by, and some still ponder the meaning of certain happenings of their lives. Whatever it may be, we all have these thoughts at times as we immerse our hearts into thoughts of yesterday, in a sphere of times gone .
Not so often, when we least expect it, voices or thoughts from our past revisit us. They come calling at the randomness of perfect synchronicity. They spark from the void of memory, through the sound of a familiar noise, in a faint smell on the wind, or in a face that we haven’t thought of or seen in years.
Memories are then rekindled and flood the mind.
I often have moments like this, peaceful thoughts of peaceful…
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Gita Chapter 2 Verse 47
कर्मण्येवाधिकारस्ते मा फलेषु कदाचन ।
मा कर्मफलहेतुर्भुर्मा ते संगोऽस्त्वकर्मणि ॥2.47॥
कर्मणि : action
एव : only
अधिकार : authority
ते : your
मा : not
फलेषु : result
कदाचन: ever
मा : no
कर्मफलहेतु : motivated by result
भुः : become
मा : don’t
ते : you
संग : attached
अस्तु : happen
अकर्मणि : inaction
तेरा कर्म करने में ही अधिकार है, उसके फलों में कभी नहीं। इसलिए तू कर्मों के फल हेतु मत हो तथा तेरी कर्म न करने में भी आसक्ति न हो॥47॥
2.47 You have a choice over action alone; never over the results. Never consider yourself to be the cause of the results of your activities, and never stop doing your duty.
Analysis:
These are the four very important principles of leading life scientifically. They are not options, they are all compulsory. It’s called as the Karma yoga catus sootri, four principles of living life scientifically. First principle – ते कर्मणि अधिकार एव. You have the right to act rightly; first thing. And now see the beauty. Be very, very attentive, we are going into subtler in our understanding now. When you work and at the time of doing your work, if you have discovered happiness, nobody in the world can make you miserable. For example, if I am happy ‘now’, nobody in the world can make me unhappy, because happiness can be experienced only in the present. The other alternative word for happiness is being in the present; first.
Second thing – We all work only in the present. Third thing, we work with our own hands. Fourth thing, our hands are in our hands. Fifth thing, those who express every action of their lives as an expression of happiness, such a person can never be miserable whatever he has to do. It doesn’t matter what you are doing. What matters is how you are doing; the first scientific principle. If you want to succeed in life, if you want to make the most of your life, this is the first principle. Whatever you do, do cheerfully, happily. And when you do everything cheerfully and happily, you are automatically weaned away from the past on one side and the future on the other side. Because happiness cannot be in future, happiness cannot be in past. This is very simple technique. Therefore, ते अधिकार – you have the right to be happy, you have no right to be miserable. First principle.
And you can be rightly happy when you express your happiness as an expression of joy, cheer, inspiration, fulfillment and time pass. Don’t become serious in life. Now I am doing कर्मण्येवाधिकारस्ते. How great it is! Don’t become serious in life. All those who become serious in life, they have not understood A, B, C of life. Life is an expression of divine bliss. In the expression of divine bliss, there cannot be material blisters. Blisters come when we do not express the inherent happiness. Such people are all the time looking for happiness outside. So, कर्मण्येवाधिकारस्ते is the first principle.
Second principle is मा फलेषु कदाचन. You have no right on the fruit of action. Now, see how it is. Action is done in the present. Why do you do the action? Certainly to get happiness! And if you want to get happiness after the work is complete, what are you doing? You are postponing your own happiness into a future period of time. Take an example, I am doing some work. And I start imagining that I will be happy when my work is over and when you would say, ‘you really done well.’ But none of you will say that. Then what happens to me? Took so much of efforts to work but nobody even appreciates me! So while working, I was not happy. In the future, because you did not appreciate me, I am not happy. So what is the net result? The net result is, I am unhappy in the present because I postponed my happiness into the future. And I am unhappy in the future because future never comes. Think!
कर्मण्येवाधिकारस्ते मा फलेषु कदाचन – That does not mean, do the job but don’t take the salary; that is foolishness. Take double the salary. So, मा फलेषु कदाचन means what? Remember one very important thing, there are only two results possible for every act – Either you get happiness or you get misery. सुख, दु:ख these are the only two results to all our actions in life. A person is happy when he gets an ordinary bicycle to ride. Another person is happy when he gets a Honda to ride. Both of them got only happiness. Whether it is out of a bicycle or it is out of a four wheeler, it makes no difference. Similarly, one person becomes miserable because he is not married. Other person becomes miserable because he is married. Now see, misery is the result of marriage or no marriage. Therefore, there are only two results in life, one is happiness and the other is misery.
Now, he who has discovered happiness at the time of doing the action, he doesn’t have to wait for the future. But what is it that we do? Don’t we make statements to our children such as, ‘Is this the day we looked forward to while bringing you to this level? What we have not done for you? And now you are deserting us?’ Mother and father become miserable looking at their own child. They forget that perhaps they have made the child miserable when the child was small. Friends, if we as parents are happy in bringing up the children, there our relationship ends. Don’t hang onto their neck till they die or you die! Leave them free. Therefore, मा फलेषु कदाचन is the only way to be happy in life. Live in the present. Whatever comes is just perfect and wonderful and you go ahead.
Be very attentive. When you go again and again into the future, ‘If I do this, this will happen, that will happen and when that happens, I will be happy.’ It is only ख्यालि पुलाव, imaginary things. It has no reality in it. It is virtual existence, not the actual. There was a pot maker who was sitting below a tree on a hot summer day. He had hundreds of pots with him piled one over the other which he wanted to sell. A stick in his hand would keep away the animals from bringing down the pots. As he sat on the cot waiting, he started dreaming of his future. He happily thought, ‘I have got say about five hundred pots. If I sell all of them at the rate of five rupees per pot, I will earn quite a big amount. And suppose I earn the same way for the whole year, I’ll make a lot of money! And then in this terrible heat with little bit of shade here and there, I will not do this wretched job of selling pots. To hell with it!’ Dreaming, he gave a blow to the pile of pots and all his pots came rolling down to break into pieces and so did his dream! He had forgotten that he was in the Present. This is the meaning of मा फलेषु कदाचन.
Now the third important principle is मा कर्मफलहेतुर्भु. See, cause and effect are the worst kind of bondage which human mind has thought of. Everything we want to fix in the language of cause and effect. And we all know how we fix it. Let us take an example – ‘Suppose I commit some murder and then hire a lawyer. Now, after the lawyer is hired, what will that lawyer try to prove? He will try to prove that I have not committed the murder. Maybe somebody is killed but I have not committed, therefore I cannot be hanged to death. Because he who has committed the murder, he alone is qualified for that.’ In the same manner, मा कर्मफलहेतुर्भु means, you act but do not create the results of your action and that is possible only when you do not have the sense of doer-ship associated with any action.
Take this understanding clearly. When we have bad digestion, this is a sin or a merit? When somebody loses his memory, is it a sin or a merit? When somebody goes round and round in circles, is that a sin or a merit? When somebody gets a heart attack, is it a sin or a merit? Nothing! Because in these modifications there is no sense of doer-ship. But on the contrary, if I give somebody five rupees in charity, then I feel I have done so good. So that act is associated with the doer-ship. So what is the equation? Action plus doer-ship is equal to deed. Legal deeds are signed, legal actions are not signed! That is the difference between an action and a deed. So whenever action is supported or associated with a sense of doer-ship, a deed takes place and a deed is called in Sanskrit as Karma. We get the कर्मफल, not the क्रियाफल. When the body is undergoing modifications that is natural in the प्रकृति, in the nature. And therefore, what is happening naturally in the nature does not create sin or merit. But when any action is associated with a sense of doer-ship, ‘I have done that,’ then the result will be born and you will be responsible for answering that result.
Therefore, the Lord says, live in this world in such a manner that if you are doing something good, ‘So what!’ That is what you are supposed to do. Therefore, be good for the sake of being good, not to claim from the world that you are good. See the difference. This is what said , नेकी कर कुवे में डाल (Do good and forget). But what do we do? We do good and we want recognition from the world for it. And the moment you want recognition from the world; you get no recognition, you get blows! Therefore friends, ‘Be good without being a doer of good’ (मा कर्मफलहेतुर्भु). Let the actions be natural as they are happening. When you are in tune with the divinity within, only goodness will come out of you. And when we are taking a detour from the divinity, only ugly actions will come out of you. And therefore, when we act in tune with the divinity, we cannot have the arrogance of doing good. But when we don’t understand this, we do good and we frustrate ourselves.
Understand this simple principle, ‘Be good for the sake of being good.’ Don’t be good just for an act. Those who are goody goody type of people they are very dangerous. Those who are open-hearted and frank, they are pure hearted. Otherwise, all the time too much of goody good behaviour indicates malice in personality. They are very dangerous type of people. Be aware about that. Therefore, मा कर्मफलहेतुर्भु.
And the fourth principle – All the problems of our life come because we act. Therefore, we conclude, why not stop acting? Extremists, we become quickly. You see, in our spiritual path also, not taking food at all is possible. Eating all the time is also possible. And both these extremes are not spiritual life. The real spiritual life is to have control on your self and live in such a manner that you eat four times a day but in very small measured quantities. Then you will discover the meaning of self control.
Another extreme that we can see is – either we get involved so much, so much in the world that we suffer. Or out of anger, we get so much frustrated, ‘O.K., I will give up everything. I’ll get out of the house and become a sanyasi.’ So getting involved in the world, grihasta, is one extreme. Other extreme is becoming a सन्यासी and imagining that now I have withdrawn from the world. But the tragedy is, whether you are a ग्रहस्थ or a सन्यासी, the mind is with you. Where will you run away? It is the mind which is creating the problem. And therefore, the Lord says, don’t take wrong decisions in life. If you have suffered because of Karma, you can rectify it with Karma alone. Suppose because of a wrong direction, you have reached a wrong destination. That doesn’t mean, ‘O.K., I have been driving wrong, I will not drive now.’ Then you will remain there only. Continue driving, but change your course now onwards.
Therefore the Lord says, मा ते संगोऽस्त्वकर्मणि – Don’t lead a life of indolence and inertia. Friends, we are from Bombay, most of us know this. Our Bombay was called a few years back as the Manchester of India. There were so many mills here. Then the great saviours of the labour class came and they have shaved off all the labour. All the machines which were running not for a day or two but for three, four, five, ten decades, they were made to stop. The day those machines stopped, they became a waste. You cannot restart the old machines again; the momentum is lost. In the same manner, when we are living in this world dynamically, what do we have to do? Only change the attitude behind action and don’t suspend the activities. Normally what we do? When we decide to become spiritual, immediately the first thing is, ‘I will do nothing.’ Only eat and eat. Convert the beautiful dishes into filthy garbage. Is this spirituality? NO!
मा ते संगोऽस्त्वकर्मणि, Never be lethargic, never be indolent, don’t accept anything in this world as a charity or beggary from anybody. Earn. And then live in the dignity of self-respect. The highest crime that we commit on the society, that highest crime is not burning and killing few people. The real crime is when we give concessions, reservations to those poor people. They don’t understand that we are making the weaker section weaker. If somebody is lame, don’t have pity on him. Give him the crutches and let him fight the battle of life. Give him self-respect. That is important. Otherwise we claim reservation as a right as if the whole world owes us. The pathetic existence of begging concessions from the society is the highest insult that one can inflict on masses because of wrong policies. Let us give self-respect.
मा ते संगोऽस्त्वकर्मणि. Never become lethargic in life, then you see the beauty of existence. Those who have gone through the tragedies of life, they know the meaning of earning money. And those who are living only on the earned money of their parents, they have never understood the meaning of joy in life. Because everything you want, you get. You never know how to earn money. Therefore, when the money comes from anybody without effort, it is only wasted. But when you earn money and then spend, you truly understand the value of life. Therefore, मा ते संगोऽस्त्वकर्मणि.
These are the four principles. If these four principles are perfectly followed in life, we have learned the science of living. And then practice. The more you practice in this dignity of right understanding, commitment and to express the inner hidden divinity in us, such a person has a different glow in his personality.
If these words cannot motivate us, God will have to correct his mistake. Next life, he will not give the opportunity to be a human being. Small little things happen in life and we stand defeated. Such a kind of pathetic self-pitiable existence is not the field of scientific existence. Therefore, मा ते संगोऽस्त्वकर्मणि. Thus, if this is accepted by us as a proposition of life, the Lord now goes still deeper.