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TIME TO REMEMBER

The social media is flooded with greetings in the form of text and multimedia messages for mother’s day. I received quite a few. I am sharing here a small collection on this occasion.

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This is too beautiful not to share. 🌸🐝A Newborn’s👶 Conversation with God 🌷🐞🌸🐝

🌸🐝A baby👶asked God,🌷🐞 “They tell me you are sending me to earth tomorrow, but how am I going to live there being so small and helpless?”🌸🐝

🌸🐝God said, 🌷🐞”Your angel 👼will be waiting for you and will take care of you.” 🌸🐝

🌸🐝The child 👶further inquired, “But tell me, here in heaven I don’t have to do anything but sing and smile to be happy.”🌸🐝

🌸🐝God said, 🌷🐞”Your angel 👼will sing for you and will also smile for you. And you will feel your angel’s 👼love and be very happy.” 🌸🐝

🌸🐝Again the small child 👶asked, “And how am I going to be able to understand when people talk to me if I don’t know the language?”🌸🐝

🌸🐝God said,🌷🐞”Your angel👼 will tell you the most beautiful and sweet words you will ever hear, and with much patience and care, your angel 👼will teach you how to speak.”🌸🐝

🌸🐝”And what am I going to do when I want to talk to you?” 🌸🐝

🌸🐝God said,🌷🐞”Your angel 👼will place your hands together and will teach you how to pray.”🌸🐝

🌸🐝”Who will protect me?” 🌸🐝

🌸🐝God said, 🌷🐞”Your angel 👼will defend you even if it means risking her life.”🌸🐝

🌸🐝”But I 🌷🐞will always be sad because I 🌷🐞will not see you anymore.”🌸🐝

🌸🐝God said, 🌷🐞”Your angel 👼will always talk to you about Me🌷🐞and will teach you the way to come back to Me, 🌷🐞even though I will always be next to you.”🌸🐝

🌸🐝At that moment there was much peace in Heaven, but voices from Earth could be heard and the child 👶hurriedly asked, 🌷🐞”God, if I am to leave now, please tell me my angel’s👼name.”🌸🐝

🌸🐝God said,🌷🐞You will simply call her……🌸🐝

🍃🌺🐛MOM🍃🌺🐛

🍃🌺🐛M- My🍃🌺🐛
🍃🌺🐛O- Only🍃🌺🐛
🍃🌺🐛M- Mentor🍃🌺🐛
🌸🌷🌸🌷🌸🌷🌸🌷🌸🌷🌸
🌻Lift a mother’s spirit; send this to every mother you know,no matter how old her child 👶is.

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ARE YOU ANGRY WITH YOURSELF

You should not be. It wastes a lot of our time and energy. Doing this you will cause too much harm to your own soul and why should we for no fault of ours. It may have adverse impact on your dear ones as souls are interconnected and can know about each other. They have no boundary.

I want you to ask yourself this question.  You can easily get the answer from your heart. If your answer is yes, you need therapy and some fresh air. Don’t take sleeping pills. I don’t want you to visit a psychotherapist for this; rather it’s more important to discover it yourself to derive good results that can last longer. We need to forgive ourselves quickly if we have caused anything wrong for any reason. Only a happy mind can think and do good for people.

Depression and solitude can cause anger in us. We get irritated at others on little provocation. While solitude is required at times for self discovery, at this state you need a company of like minded friends to guide you in right direction. Mingle with friends and family to change your mood and never stay alone for a long period. Choose your friends wisely. A good friend is like a treasure for you than hundred wrong people. If you don’t find any at this point of time when you need it the most  you may choose to find a good book and start reading. There are many on self help and motivation series. Make sure you spend time with good literature and avoid all polluted literature.

There are few more areas to explore in life. We often feel depressed and angry when we are unable to fulfill all our wishes. We always compare ourselves with others and create two groups – the haves and the have nots. This never ending desire can make you worried and angry. Put a pause on your thoughts, do an introspection, do some consultation if necessary and start again. This can bring all positivity to your life and can help you grow as a person improving your positive attitude towards life.

Your life is precious. I haven’t seen my past life and don’t know about my next life. So, why worry about things of the past and the unknown future. All I know I am born to do all good things in the world in this life only. We are all here for a very limited period. So we need to live in our present and share joy everywhere. We can’t change our past but we always can try and do the right things in our present. This will definitely help us build a bright future. I am not getting philosophical but we always can think and do something about it.

Don’t stop living for any reason like worrying too much about the future of your loved ones. It’s cruelty to your own soul. You can’t change everything in this world and I don’t understand why should we try that even. Just think about the creator of the universe. Don’t worry about things beyond your control. Play your role and leave the rest to God. We can think like this. The desirable change should start from me. I am the master of my own soul and can guide it do well.

Sharing a beautiful poem by Gurudev Rabindranath Tagore

“Go not to the temple “~ Rabindranath Tagore

Go not to the temple to put flowers upon the feet of God,
First fill your own house with the Fragrance of love and kindness.

Go not to the temple to light candles before the altar of God,
First remove the darkness of sin , pride and ego, from your heart…

Go not to the temple to bow down your head in prayer,
First learn to bow in humility before your fellowmen.
And apologise to those you have wronged.

Go not to the temple to pray on bent knees,
First bend down to lift someone who is down-trodden.
And strengthen the young ones.
Not crush them.

Go not to the temple to ask for forgiveness for your sins,
First forgive from your heart those who have hurt you!

Happy reading, writing, speaking and doing all you love to do!

Wish you all a great future!!


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WHAT IS A CRIME?

My Dear,

There is nothing personal in life. We are all connected by some thread we may not be aware of. My problem today can be yours tomorrow. So I must understand the eternal truth. We came to this world for a purpose. I must do as much good I can to myself and others in our society in this limited span of time. I am responsible for all my actions and expressions. I can’t execute myself well unless I understand the purpose.

When I am thinking about doing good I must understand first what are the bad elements I need to do away with. Have you ever felt like a criminal without committing a crime? If your answer is yes, I don’t have the outlook now to explain why you feel so. You may elaborate from your personal experience.

So, what is a crime? If I can understand this well, probably it will show me new direction to lead my life. It’s not about feeling guilty of oneself but more about righteousness.

It’s a general perception some act that goes against law is a crime. It’s not just a perception but a truth as mandated by our law makers. It’s required too for societal development. Actually, I was thinking in a different direction before I came to write about this.

Let’s do a self analysis on our understanding and ask ourselves few questions. Why is it so important to understand what is really meant by crime and what is the purpose of our judiciary? I really have no interest here to write a research paper on criminology. My objective is very simple. It’s to understand crime and criminals better before we start following a law. I don’t say law is not important but it’s more useful when we understand the purpose at a grassroots level.

Coming back to my previous questions what I understand the primary purpose of law is to prevent crime and never to punish offenders. If it’s true let’s see how we can achieve better results from a humane perspective. It’s only possible with true education and better self understanding.

There are many forms of crime in society. Can we accuse somebody as a criminal when the person does not understand her/his act as a crime. They might have a different perception what you see as a crime in society. The condition is worse where number of such people are more. Nothing more can be expected here without true and value driven education. Some basic education need to start from home at an early age.

There are crimes in our society that often get unnoticed or ignored. Domestic violence is one such example and mostly suppressed by family members successfully because of lack of enough coverage by our law. You may like to learn better by examples and I have learned a lot from movies. Damini is one such movie released in the 90s.

Neglecting one’s duty is also a crime. It’s even more critical when it comes to our society and our duty for people.

What is the biggest form of crime in your view and what is the best punishment? I am asking this keeping in view the primary purpose as we want to prevent crime.


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VALUES FOR ALL

What is value and why should we care for it? Let’s think of all values that we’ve been learning from our childhood. I’ve learnt from my parents, teachers and all my elders. These values really help us become better and better human beings. I often think i know most of the core values to it’s complete meaning but when i entered my workplace and shared my thoughts with others, i came to know there is so much more to learn and i am not a complete person. We celebrate values week to understand it’s importance and share with others. Values enrich our lives everywhere including our workplace. What are the core values that never change with time. I have a collection of it i’d like to discuss here.

 

To be updated…

 

** What are your values in life and work? I’d love to learn from you.