LOVE n LUST

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” I am crying but still trying and writing. Please don’t cry. I can’t see tears in your eyes. Just read on and pass on ”
      – An weeping soul

First of all a very happy ‘World Environment Day’ to all. Do you believe we create our environment? Our happiness or suffering greatly controlled by our environment. When we have the power to create our environment we can build the right one and give it adequate protection. We also need to protect the natural environment not created by us for our own benefit.

Today is world environment day and I am thinking about my mother. But today is not mother’s day. Are you surprised how do I relate my mother with my environment? Nothing surprising at all. Think like a baby and you will get all answer.

A mother’s womb is the first environment for a baby. It has everything for nourishment and growth of the baby. The baby feels safe in this environment and loves it. The world outside can never understand what and how the baby communicates with the mother while still inside the womb. It moves and changes position inside. Only a mother can understand it’s need.

What comes first? While love is misinterpreted by many lust is attributed with many factors. Your lust could be closely working with your greed to possess something as yours. What is the natural instinct of human beings?

Love is natural and gods wonderful creation. It is same as god.  It’s ‘anadi’ ( without a beginning) and ‘anant’ (without an end). We fail to understand love correctly as we develop lust within. Impure thoughts cause a lot of harm to our own and the world around us.

For example I love my little house and my natural environment surrounding me. Somebody is lusty about my environment and has a dream to make a lot of money to satisfy his greed. He bought all the land in my surrounding and built his factory destroying all forest land. I am still safe in my home as I refused to sell my piece of land. But how long? One fine day I decided to leave my house I loved so much as the I find my environment quite polluted and no longer safe for a living.

It’s easy to understand how we are all interdependent. The world is beautiful when we share love with all but our lust will destroy all relationship. When we grow older and develop senses to perceive the world around us we come to learn about lust. It is always secondary and love comes first in your life.

Just think about a child or your own childhood. How did you feel the touch of your mother when she caressed you at sleep? How did you feel when offered a chocolate by another family member?  You definitely in love with the other person even without your knowledge. The heart was filled with joy without the knowledge of any suffering as if the world is yours. You never felt insecure in the hands of your mother. That is pure love for your mother and affection of her to you. It’s only service without any expectation.

As a child you had no knowledge of lust. It’s all love only. So what comes first, now you decide. Now just spend some time thinking what all changed in your life as an adult. Now you have come across many in your life. How many are still in your life and care for you? How many you do still care about?
It’s only your mother and may be little of any other family member close to you like your father or sister.

So, what really changed for you by this time when you are almost half way through? It’s not the love but your perception attained by your experiences with people and your worldly knowledge. As a child you had no such knowledge and the pure heart was filled with love. You were an ever joyous personality free of all evil forces. It was only love and nothing else you first learned from your mother.

Mother has no replacement. She never asked you anything as a child you remember? Does she ask you anything now when you are well established and started earning? Her whole life is an example full of service and sacrifice for your development. I am no different and it’s all the same with me. She will never ask you anything for her own need. All she need is your time with her away from all other work. Don’t leave her alone at her old age.

Like your mother, your environment will never ask you anything except your love and care. We just need to give it adequate protection. This is all for our own benefit and well being. Sit with her and listen to her regularly. This will be the best investment of your time you spend with your loved ones. Talk to her and learn from her.

Our environment is like our mother. You love her and you will get all love in return. Probably, this is the reason we call it ‘mother nature’. Somebody who cares for us without any return expectation. We can rediscover our life within it. We all love our siblings.  We can understand our mother nature better if we can extend our love to it’s other creations as our siblings. I think we all understand what I mean. This includes all the flora and fauna.

” Learn always to love and never to hate anybody. You are an angel of god. The word ‘hatred’ should not find place in your dictionary ”

Do share and tell the world how much you care!

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COMPLIMENTS OF BALANCE

“What is joy without sorrow? what is success without failure? what is a win without a loss? what is health without illness? you have to experience each if you are to appreciate the other. there is …

Source: Compliments of Balance

SAY NO TO TOBACCO

On world no tobacco day let’s take a pledge : “we will not use any tobacco product ourselves and will generate awareness among others in our community”

It’s quite a sensitive issue when children are exposed to such products in their school days. They follow elders and we can’t blame if we a find a teenager smoking. I have seen small to big signboards and banners at many places with a clear message in block letters. But who cares these ‘no smoking’ warnings. One such board is there in my compound I stay currently. Our colony has several families with school going children. It’s quite harsh to see elders not caring much for the need of others. I don’t know if they don’t understand the need or do not want to understand.

Few public places are no different including our railway compartments. I am sorry to reveal this truth but I have observed this in recent past. It’s not the incompetency of our railway department and they take necessary steps. But it’s a difficult matter to control everything without visit people support in a country with such big population. Another issue is our corrupt mind. Your words has no value and can’t make any difference if you ask somebody to stop smoking sitting besides you when the train ticket collector is well aware but acts as a passerby. Whom do you fear to stop smoking?

Few people have a very narrow mindset. They have created a group and they think it’s their society. They will not be well respected in their high class society if they stop drinking and smoking. So, it’s a status symbol for them. We need to come quickly out of this close confinement of our mind. This will be possible when we start thinking about others.

Beginning of any change starts with self only. We all know the harmful effects of tobacco products on our health. A passive smoker is as prone to illness as an active smoker. It’s not enough to circulate statutory warnings like ‘consumption of tobacco is injurious to health’.

Any display of such products contain this kind of warning messages as we can find in movies. Does this really help generate awareness among people to quit smoking? I don’t believe so. It’s like asking people to do something at their own risk. Do they understand their habit puts others at risk in their community including their immediate family members? Everyone exposed to risk when their environment is polluted. Most people think like it’s their personal matter but it’s not I’m reality. We need to make sure people are denied use of these products.

It’s a big industry worldwide and generates great monetary profit for people in this business. But no business can be termed good at the cost of people and society even though that generates employment for few. Any addiction is bad. Money is not everything in business. We need to think and find all sources of ethical business.

Once we decide to ban all such products and close down all running factories, we need to find some other mode of employment for people working in these industries. Once the working class properly reinstated, stringent decision need to be made at government level with all guidelines including the dare consequences for violators.

By writing all this, I have no intention to hurt the feelings of my friends and acquaintances (who currently have a great love and passion for smoking/drinking). I earnestly seek your support and attention to these issues. Be a volunteer for your locality and try to bring the much needed change.

I wish all have a great time forever by taking the right action now to build a great future for all. Do share your thoughts what can be done better to completely eradicate usage of these products.

Have a nice day! 💐

SECRET TALKS

“To realize that you do not understand is a virtue; not to realize that you do not understand is a defect.” ― Lao Tzu All secrets are spoken within the heart, conversations that open the world with…

Source: Secret Talks

COMFORT IN UNCERTAINTY

I am in a place I have never been before in my life. The more I move forward, the more my life is in a constant state of change. It’s scary and mostly confusing. I experience down times of fr…

Source: Comfort in Uncertainty

MAKE YOUR DAY COUNT

Never feel upset you have lost one day doing nothing. Replenish yourself with renewed vigour and energy to make everyday count. Never allow any sort of negativity trap you and your determination.

There is no excuse pretending ourselves we have no time. The world outside will remain busy forever. We must find time for our inner world.

I am sharing few tips in images for  a transformed living i have learned earlier.

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It’s our duty to give time some time daily for self development. We all deserve a fulfilled living.

Let’s spend great time together and cherish our living even at solitude!

WE ONLY END WITH BEGINNINGS

“When we least expect it, life sets us a challenge to test our courage and willingness to change; at such a moment, there is no point in pretending that nothing has happened or in saying that we ar…

Source: We Only End With Beginnings

TELECOMMUNICATION DAY

Today is world telecommunication day. It’s also known as world  information society day.  How important is effective communication in human lives? What is the significance of this day?

You start thinking about it.
I will continue writing …

Final Thought: Know The Sphere

“He who knows others is wise; he who knows himself is enlightened.” ― Lao Tzu The life of a seed is one that begs to be noticed. We often overlook this, as we see just a simple existence, basic, un…

Source: Final Thought: Know The Sphere

FRIDAY THE THIRTEENTH

Not so superstitious …

https://debasisnayak.org/2020/11/13/friday-the-thirteenth-2/

SHARE ME

“If we have no peace, it is because we have forgotten that we belong to each other.” ― Mother Teresa Possibly the greatest gift to receive is the key to unlocking one’s own passion in life. A…

Source: Share Me

A SIMPLE MOTHER’S DAY THOUGHT

  “In this world, if I am to be a son. Let me have a mother, to whom I may always run.” A son may go far in life. He may conquer his fears and he may achieve his dreams. But it is …

Source: A Simple Mother’s Day Thought

TIME TO REMEMBER

The social media is flooded with greetings in the form of text and multimedia messages for mother’s day. I received quite a few. I am sharing here a small collection on this occasion.

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This is too beautiful not to share. 🌸🐝A Newborn’s👶 Conversation with God 🌷🐞🌸🐝

🌸🐝A baby👶asked God,🌷🐞 “They tell me you are sending me to earth tomorrow, but how am I going to live there being so small and helpless?”🌸🐝

🌸🐝God said, 🌷🐞”Your angel 👼will be waiting for you and will take care of you.” 🌸🐝

🌸🐝The child 👶further inquired, “But tell me, here in heaven I don’t have to do anything but sing and smile to be happy.”🌸🐝

🌸🐝God said, 🌷🐞”Your angel 👼will sing for you and will also smile for you. And you will feel your angel’s 👼love and be very happy.” 🌸🐝

🌸🐝Again the small child 👶asked, “And how am I going to be able to understand when people talk to me if I don’t know the language?”🌸🐝

🌸🐝God said,🌷🐞”Your angel👼 will tell you the most beautiful and sweet words you will ever hear, and with much patience and care, your angel 👼will teach you how to speak.”🌸🐝

🌸🐝”And what am I going to do when I want to talk to you?” 🌸🐝

🌸🐝God said,🌷🐞”Your angel 👼will place your hands together and will teach you how to pray.”🌸🐝

🌸🐝”Who will protect me?” 🌸🐝

🌸🐝God said, 🌷🐞”Your angel 👼will defend you even if it means risking her life.”🌸🐝

🌸🐝”But I 🌷🐞will always be sad because I 🌷🐞will not see you anymore.”🌸🐝

🌸🐝God said, 🌷🐞”Your angel 👼will always talk to you about Me🌷🐞and will teach you the way to come back to Me, 🌷🐞even though I will always be next to you.”🌸🐝

🌸🐝At that moment there was much peace in Heaven, but voices from Earth could be heard and the child 👶hurriedly asked, 🌷🐞”God, if I am to leave now, please tell me my angel’s👼name.”🌸🐝

🌸🐝God said,🌷🐞You will simply call her……🌸🐝

🍃🌺🐛MOM🍃🌺🐛

🍃🌺🐛M- My🍃🌺🐛
🍃🌺🐛O- Only🍃🌺🐛
🍃🌺🐛M- Mentor🍃🌺🐛
🌸🌷🌸🌷🌸🌷🌸🌷🌸🌷🌸
🌻Lift a mother’s spirit; send this to every mother you know,no matter how old her child 👶is.

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GONE

“For it is up to you and me to take solace in nostalgia’s arms and our ability to create the everlasting from fleeting moments.” ― Sanober Khan, A touch, a tear, a tempest It’s said abo…

Source: Gone

YOU ARE NOT THE REASON

Don’t blame yourself for anything happening around you perceive to be wrong. Even you don’t need to worry too much about all wrong doings caused primarily because of you. You may not be the reason and a great probability of some higher force involved guiding you to perform certain act at any point of need. The force is unknown to you and so as the need.

You are just a medium. You can only play the role to your best ability as per the limitations set for you by this much greater force.

You can never know your best ability as you are not fully aware of these limitations. You have complete freedom but the limitations are not set by you.

There is always something we can do better about anything. So we should accept ourselves for all that we are doing good and for the rest that went wrong as nobody is a perfect human being.

There is nothing like perfectly right or wrong about something. We can only do better to our current performance on our next opportunity if we learn from our strengths and weaknesses. Our past performance is a psychological booster but not necessarily a determining factor for our future performance.

It’s important to set ourselves free and be in a positive mindset before we plan to do something good. Why should I limit myself when I am not the controller and not aware of all the limitations?

It’s better to assume we are limitless and having unlimited control. This will make us free from any unknown fear and will give us complete freedom to think and act on our own.

I expect you to do better to all that you are doing good now. Write to me all that I can do better I am not doing very good now.

Happy reading & writing…