STAGES OF FORGIVENESS

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Though forgiveness can help repair a damaged relationship, it doesn’t obligate you to reconcile with the person who harmed you, or release them from legal accountability. Instead, forgiveness brings the forgiver peace of mind and frees him or her from corrosive anger.

Here are the four stages of forgiveness :

  • Uncovering – Gaining insight into whether, and how, the injustice and subsequent injury have compromised his or her life. Confronting anger and shame. Becoming aware of potential emotional exhaustion. Becoming aware of cognition preoccupation. Confronting the possibility that the transgression could lead to permanent change for them. Discovering how the transgression changed their view of the world.
  • Decision – Gaining an accurate understanding of what forgiveness is, and making a decision to commit to forgiving on the basis of this understanding.
  • Work – Gaining a deeper understanding of the offender and beginning to view the offender in a new light (reframing), resulting in positive…

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WORDS OF WISDOM # 01

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A LETTER FROM LINCOLN

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LEARNING BIRDS # 05

Indian peafowl

The Indian peafowl (Pavo cristatus) also known as the common peafowl or blue peafowl is a peafowl species native to the Indian subcontinent. It has been introduced to many other countries.

The male peacock is brightly coloured, with a predominantly blue fan-like crest of spatula-tipped wire-like feathers and is best known for the long train made up of elongated upper-tail covert feathers which bear colourful eyespots. These stiff feathers are raised into a fan and quivered in a display during courtship. Despite the length and size of these covert feathers, peacocks are still capable of flight. Peahens lack the train, and have a greenish lower neck and duller brown plumage.

The Indian peafowl lives mainly on the ground in open forest or on land under cultivation where they forage for berries, grains but also prey on snakes, lizards, and small rodents. Their loud calls make them easy to detect, and in forest areas often indicate the presence of a predator such as a tiger. They forage on the ground in small groups and usually try to escape on foot through undergrowth and avoid flying, though they fly into tall trees to roost.

The function of the peacock’s elaborate train has been debated for over a century. In the 19th century, Charles Darwin found it a puzzle, hard to explain through ordinary natural selection. His later explanation, sexual selection, is widely but not universally accepted. In the 20th century, Amotz Zahavi argued that the train was a handicap, and that males were honestly signalling their fitness in proportion to the splendour of their trains. Despite extensive study, opinions remain divided on the mechanisms involved.

The bird is celebrated in Hindu and Greek mythology and is the national bird of India. The Indian peafowl is listed as of Least Concern by the International Union for Conservation of Nature (IUCN).

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WHERE DID I LOSE HER?

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I look back in time to see a

tiny shadow caper around,

up to her frivolous antics.

Her cherubic smile

complements her vivacious spirit.

She embraces mirth in

life’s tiny delights,

living each moment,

without a care of being judged.

Complacent and forgiving by nature

she is unafraid to explore.

For, she is a bohemian soul.

Today, I look at my shadow.

Its all grown and groomed,

cast in the societal mould.

Always on tenterhooks ,

worrying, has become a way of life.

The labyrinth of emotional complexities

overwhelms me.

Frowns have replaced my smiles

sadly, I define my own limitations.

I just exist, forgetting to live.

I wonder,

Why and when did I estrange myself

from my once effervescent self?

I know not…

But, I guess its never too late,

to reconnect with my inner child,

to kindle that lost spark.

Oh!…

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GAME OF THE SHADOW

THE SUN & THE MOON

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सोचना क्या है

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अपने रूठे
मेरे वाक्पटुता पर भी
व खामोशी पर भी
अब तू ही बता ए खुदा
इनके बीच का रास्ता क्या है,
उम्र गुजरी खुद से ज्यादा
उनकी परवाह करने में
हवाइयां उड़ी मेरी जब उन्होंने कहा
‘ मेरे लिए आखिर तुमने किया क्या है ‘,
मैं हूं एक आज़ाद परिंदा
एक दिन उड़ जाना है
जितना मर्जी हंस ले चाहे मुझपर
हिसाब तेरा भी होगा मित्र
बंधु, तेरी हैसियत ही क्या है,
आधुनिकता का तमाचा ऐसा कि
अब इज्ज़त केवल धन की रह गई
हर इंसान से उसका ज़मीर पूछता
‘ बता तेरा दाम क्या है ‘,
इतनी पीड़ा सह ली है
एक दिन सब
बेहतर होने के लालच में कि
आज जब मृत्यु ने पूछा
‘ चलें ‘ ?
तब मैंने कहा
‘ इसमें सोचना क्या है ‘ ॥

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GOOD GOVERNANCE DAY: REMEMBERING ATAL JI

Good Governance Day (India): 25 December

Atal Bihari Vajpayee

Emergence: 25 December 1924

Demise: 16 August 2018

Good Governance Day is observed in India annually on the twenty-fifth day of December, the birth anniversary of former-Prime Minister Atal Bihari Vajpayee.bGood Governance Day was established in 2014 to honor Prime Minister Vajpayee by fostering awareness among the Indian people of accountability in government.

Atal Bihari Vajpayee was an Indian statesman who served three terms as the Prime Minister of India, first for a term of 13 days in 1996, then for a period of 13 months from 1998 to 1999, followed by a full term from 1999 to 2004. A member of the Bharatiya Janata Party (BJP), he was the first Indian prime minister not of the Indian National Congress to serve a full term in office. He was also noted as a poet and a writer.

He was a member of the Indian Parliament for over five decades, having been elected ten times to the Lok Sabha, the lower house, and twice to the Rajya Sabha, the upper house. He served as the Member of Parliament for Lucknow, retiring from active politics in 2009 due to health concerns.

During his tenure as prime minister, India carried out the Pokhran-II nuclear tests in 1998. Vajpayee sought to improve diplomatic relations with Pakistan, travelling to Lahore by bus to meet with Prime Minister Nawaz Sharif. After the 1999 Kargil War with Pakistan, he sought to restore relations through engagement with President Pervez Musharraf, inviting him to India for a summit at Agra.

The administration of Narendra Modi declared in 2014 that Vajpayee’s birthday, 25 December, would be marked as Good Governance Day. In 2015, he was conferred India’s highest civilian honour, the Bharat Ratna, by the President of India, Pranab Mukherjee. He died on 16 August 2018 of age-related illness.

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🎅🌲MERRY CHRISTMAS🌲🎅

Christmas Day ~ 25 December

Christmas (or the Feast of the Nativity) is an annual festival commemorating the birth of Jesus Christ, observed primarily on December 25 as a religious and cultural celebration among billions of people around the world. A feast central to the Christian liturgical year, it is preceded by the season of Advent or the Nativity Fast and initiates the season of Christmastide, which historically in the West lasts twelve days and culminates on Twelfth Night; in some traditions, Christmastide includes an octave.

Christmas Day is a public holiday in many countries around the world and is celebrated religiously by a majority of Christians as well as culturally by many non-Christians. It forms an integral part of the holiday season centered around it.

I wish a very happy christmas day to all in our blogging community! It’s a different christmas this year amidst the pandemic and social distancing. Let’s have a fun-filled holiday season and bring cheers to all…

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Merry Christmas!🎅

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CHRISTMAS EVE ⛄

Christmas Eve ~ 24 December

Christmas Eve is the evening or entire day before Christmas Day, the festival commemorating the birth of Jesus. Christmas Day is observed around the world, and Christmas Eve is widely observed as a full or partial holiday in anticipation of Christmas Day. Together, both days are considered one of the most culturally significant celebrations in Christendom and Western society.

Christmas Eve is celebrated in different ways around the world, varying by country and region. Elements common to many areas of the world include the attendance of special religious observance such as a midnight Mass or Vespers and the giving and receiving of presents. Along with Easter, Christmas time is one of the most important periods on the Christian calendar, and is often closely connected to other holidays at this time of year, such as Advent, the Feast of the Immaculate Conception, St. Nicholas Day, St. Stephen’s Day, New Year’s, and the Feast of the Epiphany.

Christmas Eve, an 1878 painting by J. Hoover & Son

Among Christians, as well as non-Christians who celebrate Christmas, the significant amount of vacation travel, and travel back to family homes, that takes place in the lead-up to Christmas means that Christmas Eve is also frequently a time of social events and parties, worldwide.

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ज़ेहन में सवाल

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कई सवाल
ज़ेहन में उठते हैं मेरे
अगर हम जीते हैं तो
जीते क्यों नहीं ?
अगर ईश्वर को मानते हैं, तो
खुद में उसे ढूँढ़ते क्यों नहीं ?
ऐसा व्यवहार दूसरों से
क्यों करते हम
जो खुद संग होते
देख सकते नहीं ?
कहते हैं
जो चीज़ कम होती है
उसकी कीमत बढ़ जाती है
तो ईमान-प्रेम की क्यों नहीं ?
गलत कौन, अगर सब सही हैं
कोई सही भी कैसे जब
अगर कोई गलत नहीं ?
धन, मौका, वक्त, प्रसिद्धि,
प्रेम, इज्ज़त, ज़िन्दगी
जिसको मिलती है
वो कद्र नहीं करता
जो कद्र करता है
उसे मिलती क्यों नहीं ?

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POSITIVE VIBES # 14

Happy holidays…

A DIFFERENT KIND OF LOVE

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There are times when I can see myself

through your eyes.

My pale face so in love

aching for the caress of a flaxen

haired boy racing through rolling fields.

Suddenly serious your adventurous eyes

sent yearning shivers through me.

I longed for your touch anytime and

kissed you opened mouth without

permission.

I adored your mock anger when you

chased me and the awkward way

you looked down at your hands.

Soon Autumn threw its shadow on

sprouting wheat, smooth and wet.

Now, I listen to the soft whisper

of your breathing through a half

closed door and know there are

different kinds of love

wild, ruthless, and unafraid.

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🙏🌺 REMEMBERING MOHAMMED RAFI 🌺🙏

Mohammed Rafi

Emergence: 24 December 1924

Demise: 31 July 1980

Mohammed Rafi was an Indian film playback singer. He is considered as one of the greatest and most influential singers of the Indian subcontinent.

Rafi was notable for his versatility and range of voice; his songs varied from fast peppy numbers to patriotic songs, sad numbers to highly romantic songs, qawwalis to ghazals and bhajans to classical songs. He was known for his ability to mould his voice to the persona and style of the actor lip-syncing the song on screen in the movie.

He received four Filmfare Awards and one National Film Award. In 1967, he was honored with the Padma Shri award by the Government of India. In 2001, Rafi was honoured with the “Best Singer of the Millennium” title by Hero Honda and Stardust magazine. In 2013, Rafi was voted for the Greatest Voice in Hindi Cinema in the CNN-IBN’s poll.

He recorded songs for over a thousand Hindi films and sang songs in many Indian languages as well as foreign languages, though primarily in Hindi-Urdu and Punjabi, over which he had a strong command. He recorded as many as 7,405 songs in many languages. He sang in many Indian languages – Konkani, Assamese, Bhojpuri, Odia, Punjabi, Bengali, Marathi, Sindhi, Kannada, Gujarati, Tamil, Telugu, Magahi, Maithili, etc. Apart from Indian languages, he also sang songs in many foreign languages, including English, Farsi or Persian, Arabic, Sinhala, Creole and Dutch.

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GITA WISDOM #52

Bhagavad Gita: Chapter 3 Verse 20

कर्मणैव हि संसिद्धिमास्थिता जनकादयः।
लोकसंग्रहमेवापि सम्पश्यन्कर्तुमर्हसि॥

It is essential for a chief executive to keep the approach of the great leaders of the yore in view and perform his duties in a detached way. Such a person eventually sets a laudable example for others to follow. (3.20)

जनकादि ज्ञानीजन भी आसक्ति रहित कर्मद्वारा ही परम सिद्धि को प्राप्त हुए थे, इसलिए तथा लोकसंग्रह को देखते हुए भी तू कर्म करने के ही योग्य है अर्थात तुझे कर्म करना ही उचित है
॥20॥

It is essential for a chief executive to keep the approach of the great leaders of the yore in view and perform his duties in a detached way. Such a person eventually sets a laudable example for others to follow. (3.20)

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